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When you first start dating someone, the first question amongst both men and women tend to be…”Is there someone else?”

Whether you’re looking for a relationship or casual fun, it’s really hard to describe what your situation is and where you stand. “Does she think I’m her boyfriend,” “Is he screwing another girl,” and “Am I allowed to date more people?” are all common questions in the first level of the game I like to call “Dating.”

So if you don’t want to lead your new fling on or if you are just simply confused as to what your status are, the only solution is to talk about it…but always wait until the third date.

You don’t want him or her to think you are already discussing your future together. That will only freak them out. Casually bring up what you are looking for for yourself without coming on too strong. Chances are they will likewise mention their motives. If not, you can ask. By bringing up this conversation on the third encounter, you will be able to tell if that person fits the requirements you are looking for at this point in your life. That way, all cards are out on the table and no one gets hurt. Poker face is overrated.

On a side note, men always seem to think that the women are immediately wanting a relationship with them. Not true! That is all. Ciao friends!

Sexual attraction. Both of you feel it. It’s hot and heavy and oh so steamy until you’ve got no more patience but to run to the bedroom and rip his clothes off. And then…it’s a total flop.

What happened? Isn’t he aroused? Is it me?

Most women get frustrated and don’t know whether to leave the situation alone or help it. But if it so happpens that your man can’t get it up, there are a few things to consider. Firstly, don’t take it personal. Rarely does it have anything to do with the woman. There are several reasons why this happens. And it happens to the best of them.

A floppy sitution is one of the most humiliating things for a man so avoid any negative remarks. And to ease it up a bit, ask him if he wants you to do something about it or if he just wants to let it go. Trying to get the ball rolling is ideal so that both of you can forget what happened and actually get laid.  Foreplay and oral is the way to go in this scenario.

If he wants to leave it, try saying something comforting and even a little flirty like, “You better make it up to me ” to show him you’re not turned off by him.

Let’s just hope it doesn’t happen again.

Sex is a source of power. So while it’s often associated that men are the dominating partners who initiate sex, the modern female is obliged to counter argue.

Nowadays, women are considered sexual beings who are free and open to new experiences and desire. So while it’s the common conception to think that men are the ones who initiate the sexual process, it does not mean that the women should not start up anything when in the mood. And if a man is ever offended when a women initiates sex, the only thing to do is to dump him.

Women can now heat things up, booty call and even ask “Do you want to come up?” Keep it neutral and eventually everyone will get what they want. Rules aside.

Does exercise improve one’s sex life?? According to several studies, men and women who are physically active on a regular basis are prone to have a higher sex drive. Does this sound true? Well, once you start…you can’t stop…(seems to be a good motto!)

A good tip to abide by is to only exercise for twenty minutes before getting a little bedroom action. Whether going for a jog, doing a few pushups or even pilates, try something that will stimulate you physically and mentally.